[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.strakon-st.cz\/jak-na-prvorozene-dite\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.strakon-st.cz\/jak-na-prvorozene-dite\/","headline":"Jak na prvorozen\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b","name":"Jak na prvorozen\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b","description":"Pro za\u010d\u00e1tek si zavzpom\u00ednejte na to, kdy\u017e se v\u00e1m v\u00e1\u0161 prvn\u00ed poklad narodil, na prvn\u00ed pl\u00e1\u010d, prvn\u00ed brouk\u00e1n\u00ed, prvn\u00ed \u00fasm\u011bv, prvn\u00ed uchopen\u00ed hra\u010dky, prvn\u00ed p\u0159eto\u010den\u00ed na bok. Ka\u017ed\u00fd \u00fasp\u011bch jste odm\u011bnili sprchou chv\u00e1ly a radosti. Zakl\u00e1dali jste si na jeho \u0161ikovnosti a kr\u00e1se. Ka\u017ed\u00fd probl\u00e9m jste p\u0159ehnan\u011b \u0159e\u0161ili, ka\u017edou ud\u00e1lost","datePublished":"2025-03-03","dateModified":"2023-05-02","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.strakon-st.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.strakon-st.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/68b3ed45b3ae6ecdad6bfa25b4077e93536d7764172b2830acbdb661d7242512?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/68b3ed45b3ae6ecdad6bfa25b4077e93536d7764172b2830acbdb661d7242512?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"strakon-st.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.strakon-st.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a306855_w2348_t1518094759.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.strakon-st.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a306855_w2348_t1518094759.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.strakon-st.cz\/jak-na-prvorozene-dite\/","wordCount":538,"articleBody":"Pro za\u010d\u00e1tek si zavzpom\u00ednejte na to, kdy\u017e se v\u00e1m v\u00e1\u0161 prvn\u00ed poklad narodil, na prvn\u00ed pl\u00e1\u010d, prvn\u00ed brouk\u00e1n\u00ed, prvn\u00ed \u00fasm\u011bv, prvn\u00ed uchopen\u00ed hra\u010dky, prvn\u00ed p\u0159eto\u010den\u00ed na bok. Ka\u017ed\u00fd \u00fasp\u011bch jste odm\u011bnili sprchou chv\u00e1ly a radosti. Zakl\u00e1dali jste si na jeho \u0161ikovnosti a kr\u00e1se. Ka\u017ed\u00fd probl\u00e9m jste p\u0159ehnan\u011b \u0159e\u0161ili, ka\u017edou ud\u00e1lost desetkr\u00e1t nafotili.Prvn\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b si zvyklo na va\u0161i ni\u010d\u00edm neru\u0161enou pozornost a \u010dastou chv\u00e1lu. Nau\u010dilo se v\u00e1m d\u011blat radost. Zp\u016fsob, jak\u00fdm rodi\u010de p\u0159istupuj\u00ed ke sv\u00fdm prvn\u00edm d\u011btem, v\u00a0nich buduje sout\u011b\u017eivost, orientaci na v\u00fdkon, punti\u010dk\u00e1\u0159stv\u00ed, touhu po dokonalosti. D\u00edt\u011b je zvykl\u00e9 b\u00fdt oce\u0148ov\u00e1no za to, co dok\u00e1\u017ee. Toto se prom\u00edt\u00e1 do osobnosti prvn\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed i v\u00a0dosp\u011blosti.Potom p\u0159ijde sourozenec. Prvorozenec spadne z\u00a0lopaty. M\u00edsto role z\u00e1\u0159iv\u00e9 hv\u011bzdy rodiny je po n\u011bm po\u017eadov\u00e1na role nep\u0159id\u011bl\u00e1vat unaven\u00fdm rodi\u010d\u016fm starosti. Chce se po nich, aby byli \u0161ikovn\u00ed a hodn\u00ed, proto\u017ee vy m\u00e1te tolik pr\u00e1ce s\u00a0miminkem. Najednou maj\u00ed b\u00fdt ti star\u0161\u00ed a zodpov\u011bdn\u00ed. Jejich hodnota u\u017e nespo\u010d\u00edv\u00e1 v\u00a0jejich \u00fasp\u011b\u0161\u00edch, co\u017e tak\u00e9 nen\u00ed zrovna dobr\u00fd start pro zdrav\u00e9 sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, ale nyn\u00ed je d\u00edt\u011b chv\u00e1leno za pln\u011bn\u00ed po\u017eadavk\u016f, kter\u00e9 na n\u011bj klademe.Prvn\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b na novou situace reaguje dv\u011bma zp\u016fsoby \u2013 bu\u010f za\u010dne zlobit, vyv\u00e1d\u011bt, do\u017eadovat se pozornosti, chovat se jako mal\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b, nebo se stane rozumn\u00fdm, \u010dili soucitn\u00fdm, pom\u00e1haj\u00edc\u00edm, proto\u017ee tou\u017e\u00ed po d\u0159\u00edv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed l\u00e1sce a pozornosti. To je ov\u0161em tak\u00e9 nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9.Co s\u00a0t\u00edm?Necht\u011bjte bezprobl\u00e9mov\u00e9, dokonal\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Nekla\u010fte na va\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b p\u0159ehnan\u00e9 po\u017eadavky. Nemus\u00ed jako prvn\u00ed chodit i mluvit a nemus\u00ed nav\u0161t\u011bvovat deset krou\u017ek\u016f t\u00fddn\u011b. Bu\u010fte s\u00a0n\u00edm a milujte ho takov\u00e9, jak\u00e9 je. Dejte mu mo\u017enost d\u011blat chyby, jednat svobodn\u011b. Bu\u010fte spolu, odpo\u010d\u00edvejte, neminimalizujte spole\u010dn\u00fd \u010das na neust\u00e1le u\u010den\u00ed se n\u011b\u010deho nov\u00e9ho. Nikdy nesrovn\u00e1vejte, ani s\u00a0mlad\u0161\u00edm d\u00edt\u011btem, ani s\u00a0ciz\u00edmi.Necht\u011bjte po n\u011bm okam\u017eit\u00e9 p\u0159epnut\u00ed do role star\u0161\u00edho, rozumn\u00e9ho sourozence. Budujete v\u00a0n\u011bm tak pocit, \u017ee pro v\u00e1s bude dost dobr\u00fd jenom tehdy, kdy\u017e se zm\u011bn\u00ed.Ne\u010di\u0148te ho zodpov\u011bdn\u00fdm za mlad\u0161\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b. Takov\u00fd tlak d\u00edt\u011b n\u00e9st nem\u00e1. Dal\u0161\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b je va\u0161e, starejte se o n\u011bj vy. Prvorozen\u00e9ho m\u016f\u017eete p\u0159\u00e1telsky p\u0159izvat, jeho pomoc v\u0161ak mus\u00ed b\u00fdt dobrovoln\u00e1, jinak si k\u00a0mlad\u0161\u00edmu sourozenci p\u011bkn\u00fd vztah neud\u011bl\u00e1.Ud\u011blejte si ob\u010das na star\u0161\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b \u010das, a\u0165 zase zakus\u00ed stoprocentn\u00ed pozornost t\u00e1ty nebo m\u00e1my.Milujte, i kdy\u017e to bude t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9, nemluvte o n\u011bm \u0161kared\u011b, ani p\u0159ed kamar\u00e1dkami, a nel\u00e1mejte h\u016fl. 3.4\/5 - (7 votes) "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Jak na prvorozen\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b","item":"https:\/\/www.strakon-st.cz\/jak-na-prvorozene-dite\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]